Ray Hobbs Introduction. WickedWickedWicked. Twisted Sister. The Curse
Ray Hobbs "After a reasonable period of thought I decided beginning here would be the best route to take. I had this idea that I could find someone just right to approach My alienated daughters as I was not comfortable making direct contact them. They were completely different in almost every aspect and each required a specific approach as our conversations varied but had the same result, the same outcome, the same ending. Brutal. Full of venom and hate filled vomit from a source neither would reveal or speak of. There was no one within my small sphere of friends that could do this as well as I so the inevitable had to be faced one way or another and sooner rather than later. Time has run out and there will be no reversal of opinions, no reunions or reconciliations of the traditional nature. Accepting what has transpired and being thankful for where I am at today will suffice." .
Ray Hobbs "This brief event in my life gave me a minuscule snapshot of parenting and Fatherhood yet was nothing close to what most experience. I never achieved that status of Parent or Father after the separation from the Mother of my daughters in spite of the Family Courts oversight. Minimal visitation was ordered. If it had not been granted We would have never known each other beyond the first three years of your life. The Court Order did not stand as your Mother ignored it and left the state within a couple years. She suggested I forget you forever as Richard was now your Father. The remainder of our relationship was by letter and telephone which diminished to a call once a month or on holidays. It was nonexistent in a short period of time."